Eddie’s Story: Learning to Lean on Others
Eddie never imagined wanting to hurt a friend. But after two combat missions abroad, he was becoming consumed by anger. He knew he was going to hurt himself or someone close to him. Then, he found the Returning Veterans Project.
Lost in an internal battle, Eddie needed a vital ally
Eddie felt angry – a lot. After returning from two deployments abroad - once to Desert Storm (Bahrain) and the other to Iraq - Eddie thought he could handle his problems alone. But it was taking all his energy and focus to keep his anger hidden inside. Soon, his anger was starting to burst out at the seams.
He never imagined hurting a friend, but as weeks passed, he was picking fights that were getting closer and closer to dangerous ends. Eddie didn’t think he had a problem, until he connected with the Returning Veterans Project and took a look inside himself.
RVP connects veterans with free mental or physical health services
Eddie connected with a licensed counselor who volunteers for the Returning Veterans Project. Eddie was amazed at how he could open up to her – sharing things he was ashamed to tell anyone else.
Without judgement or blame, Eddie’s RVP counselor helped him see that he was strong enough to handle his emotions. Eddie felt an enormous sense of relief when he started to lean on someone who could help him face his anger.
Leaning on someone else defied his military training. But after two years of therapy, Eddie didn’t have to bury his anger – he knew how to deal with his emotions.
What I learned in the Marine Corp was how to go and destroy something. What I’d never learned was that I could actually lean on somebody.
Lance Corporal Eddie Black serving with the United States Marine Corp during the Gulf War.
I cannot tell you how grateful I am for the love and patience that you have given me.
Today, Eddie helps ensure military veterans get high-quality health care.
Eddie now helps other veterans and still serves our country
Today, Eddie works to equip health care providers with the skills they need to better serve military veterans. And he is still serving in the Oregon National Guard. He has been transformed. Imagine what his life would be like if the Returning Veterans Project wasn’t here to help him? No longer is every day a struggle. Now, he’s thriving!
Hope prevails, But the Work Isn’t Over
The Returning Veterans Project has changed the lives of people like Eddie and is improving life during and after military service for veterans, service members, and their families in Oregon and Southwest Washington. But the need for RVP services continues.
Our work is not done. And with the support of people like you, the Returning Veterans Project will be there for our veterans and military community for as long as our help is needed.
